ABOUT
ME
I'm sorry. Stop apologizing. I'm sorry.
Not too long ago, I was sorry for everything. Sorry for laughing, sorry for speaking, sorry for always being sorry, sorry that I didn't know how to stop saying sorry. I guess you could say, I was sorry for existing.
There was time I wasn't sorry for everything, but high school, college, parents, jobs, society seemed to keep pointing out all the things I should be apologizing for and then when I started apologizing, that was wrong too ... So I started eating, hiding, being more agreeable, putting on a smile and staying inside the lines. I became what I call now the good girl.
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At the height of my apologetic days, I was 277 lbs, jobless, terrified of the world, in an empty marriage, and somehow still finding things to apologize for. Every once in a while, I'd get a boost & think, I'm breaking free. I'd start to take steps, but all the stories that kept repeating in my mind would eventually win. In 2016, I got the longest boost of freedom. I lost 115 lbs, I got a divorce, I started a new career & I started getting back out into the world. I really believed I had broken free.
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But then I hit the proverbial rock bottom. Externally, my life was wonderful. I lost weight, I had a boyfriend, a career... I was checking all the boxes I needed to achieve the one thing I'd always been searching for.... elusive happiness...so why was I still so unhappy?
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One day, I woke up & decided it was time to be radically honest with myself. Nothing about it was easy, but every next step became about transforming my life.
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And that is where Unapologetic Coaching with Tiffany was born....
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Through my journey, I stumbled, tripped, screamed, cried & lived with a constant internal scream of "JUST GIVE UP, YOU AREN'T GOOD ENOUGH, YOU AREN'T WORTH IT". I want to help you have a smoother journey to breaking free of the constant apologies. I can't promise it will be easy or linear, but I can promise you'll have a guide & partner that truly understands.
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